How to Handle A Real Pain in the Butt

Here’s how to handle a real pain in the butt! When I say “pelvic floor,” what do you envision? Most people think of a vagina, but the pelvic floor isn’t the vagina. Rather, it’s “a group of muscles and tissues that support important organs like the bladder, urethra, anus—and in women—the uterus, cervix and vagina,” according to the FDA.

So yes, the pelvic floor involves your back door. And while you may not want to bring up back door pain, bleeding or discomfort to your pelvic floor therapist (because you think of her as the vagina expert), she might just be the key to solving it, or at least understanding it better!

And what exactly can cause this? Let’s explore.


Levator Ani Syndrome

Let’s start with levator ani syndrome. Levator ani syndrome is caused by muscle spasms and is a type of pelvic floor dysfunction. Getting its name from the levator ani itself, it’s a group of muscles located around your butt and vagina. They can range from mild pelvic or rectal pain to something way more intense than “pain in the butt”. It can even cause you to awaken from a dead sleep! It can also feel like pressure that mimics “sitting on a ball,” according to the Cleveland Clinic.

What causes it? There are theories: Everyday activities can be likely culprits, from prolonged sitting while working or traveling, to sex, to life stress, to painful bowel movements. But a definitive cause hasn’t been found.

Pelvic floor physical therapy can treat this condition, along with muscle relaxers, warm baths and rectal dilation (ideally taught to you by your awesome pelvic floor PT!).


Hemorrhoids

You’re probably pretty familiar with hemorroids already, maybe a little too familiar! What you may not know is that there are three types – internal, external and thrombosed, as the Mayo Clinic explains.

Hemorrhoids are just another way of saying your veins are swollen. Internal and external are exactly like they sound, either in the rectum (internal), which is the last stoop for stool on its way from the large intestine to the toilet, or external, typically viewable from the outside, where the anus is. Both can involve bleeding and pain. Thrombosed hemorrhoids may be located externally or internally, according to the Cleveland Clinic. The pain can be much worse and you develop a clot.

The same causes of pelvic floor dysfunction can also cause hemorrhoids – aging, pregnancy and/or constipation. Do your best to avoid constipation, whether that means more water, more fiber or exercising. Never strain to have a bowel movement.

There are many hemorrhoid prevention exercises, like Child’s Pose and pelvic floor contractions that your physical therapist may be able to help you master. The Mayo Clinic recommends over-the-counter cream, Tylenol and warm baths to treat.


Fissure

A fissure is a tear in tissue around the anus. And again, constipation is often the culprit. Bowel movements may not be the simple process they were before you had the fissure, as now you’ll experience pain and bleeding. You may also experience spasms near the anal sphincters. The good news? It doesn’t take much to treat this condition – a warm bath and avoiding constipation can do the trick.


Anal Fistula

An anal fistula is a connection that has sprung up between your anus and the external skin, according to the Cleveland Clinic. This leads to pain, swelling and possibly pus. Most often, the cause is a perianal abscess which typically happens when an anal gland is infected. Surgery is the main way to treat anal fistulas. An MRI that shows the pelvic floor may be needed in the diagnosis stage. There is also a rectovaginal fistula, which, according to the Mayo Clinic, is an unnatural connection bonding the rectum or anus and vagina. Stool or gas is then able to emerge from the vagina once this happens. Childbirth, Chron’s disease, surgery and radiation are a few causes.


Rectal Prolapse

In a rectal prolapse, a person’s rectum leaves their anus and is actually visible. It is part of a larger category known as POP or pelvic organ prolapse. In more severe cases, you may even see pink tissue emerging from the anus. Fecal incontinence, constipation, bleeding and incomplete emptying of the rectum are all symptoms, says the Mayo Clinic. As with hemorrhoids and pelvic floor dysfunction, advanced age (over 50) and constipation could be to blame. Treatment might be as simple as a laxative or as complex as surgery.


While many of us don’t want to think about anything related to the anus, as the symptoms tend to be uncomfortable and private, it is important to listen to our bodies when they speak to us. Colon and anal cancer are real risks. Screening is important if your doctor recommends it. Take care of that pain in the butt now before it becomes a bigger one later. And that’s … the bottom line.

Why Is Judy Golden? Urinary Urgency After Menopause

Why is Judy Golden?

Comedian Judy Gold recently posted an interesting question for fans on Instagram. “Can you explain something to me? Why is it,” she asked, “that …  the second I hit 60, the amount of time for my brain to register that I have to go pee—and the pee actually exiting my body—is now down to about a third of a second?” She then proceeded to apologize to her downstairs neighbor for running to the bathroom so loudly! Continue reading to discover more about urinary urgency after menopause.

What Is Urinary Urgency?

Perhaps you can relate (although I hope you can’t!). The official medical term for it is urinary urgency, and there are some myths around it.

First, it can happen even if you haven’t been on a long car ride drinking five Red Bulls in a row. And it can happen even if you don’t have a UTI or overactive bladder.

Why It Can Happen Around Menopause

And while I’m not treating Judy (although I’m happy if she needs me to!), you should know that women who are around Judy’s age (menopausal) can experience this kind of urgency due to a lower level of estrogen and thinner vaginal tissue, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

Other Possible Causes of Urinary Urgency

What are some other reasons this might happen? Vaginal and bladder inflammation, diabetes, MS, a side effect of a new medication (such as a diuretic) and even winter. What you eat (fake sweetener, for example), drink (like seltzer) and hear (such as water dripping from a faucet) can play a part in how long you’ll feel comfortable holding your urine, so you may want to think about it like a detective when determining the cause.

When to Loop in Your Doctor

As there are so many reasons why this can happen—and because some are quite serious—it’s good to loop your doctor in. (Your doctor may be able to prescribe Botox too if overactive bladder is the cause. Botox, injected directly into your bladder’s detrusor muscle, can keep that muscle from spasming, so you don’t feel that sudden, panicked need to get to the bathroom. It’s not especially painful and FDA-approved, but it may need to be injected more than once, as it wears off in a few months.)

How Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Can Help

If it turns out not to be serious, and you can’t resolve it on your own, then it’s time to contact your local awesome pelvic floor PT! Urinary urgency is not something you have to put up with, regardless of what you’ve been told. I repeat, you do not have to live like this. You deserve better! It is something we know how to treat effectively with bladder training and kegels. Kegels can be hard to get the hang of, so ask your therapist to allow you to practice during a session. Bladder training is determining ahead of time when you will go to the bathroom. This is versus allowing your bladder to empty on its own, without your wish or permission. It is something that also requires patience, but can be so worth the effort.

Why This Matters

Getting urinary urgency under control can change your life! Imagine: no more avoiding long car rides. No more mapping out every bathroom in a mile radius. No more racing to your bathroom before you even say hi to your family. And no more being scared to laugh at a hysterical scene at the movies. I really appreciate Judy Gold for shining a light on urinary urgency with her trademark sense of humor. I hope that you, Judy (and Judy’s neighbor) get some relief soon because urinary urgency is, at the end of the day, no laughing matter.

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