Why Is Judy Golden? Urinary Urgency After Menopause

Why is Judy Golden?

Comedian Judy Gold recently posted an interesting question for fans on Instagram. “Can you explain something to me? Why is it,” she asked, “that …  the second I hit 60, the amount of time for my brain to register that I have to go pee—and the pee actually exiting my body—is now down to about a third of a second?” She then proceeded to apologize to her downstairs neighbor for running to the bathroom so loudly! Continue reading to discover more about urinary urgency after menopause.

What Is Urinary Urgency?

Perhaps you can relate (although I hope you can’t!). The official medical term for it is urinary urgency, and there are some myths around it.

First, it can happen even if you haven’t been on a long car ride drinking five Red Bulls in a row. And it can happen even if you don’t have a UTI or overactive bladder.

Why It Can Happen Around Menopause

And while I’m not treating Judy (although I’m happy if she needs me to!), you should know that women who are around Judy’s age (menopausal) can experience this kind of urgency due to a lower level of estrogen and thinner vaginal tissue, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

Other Possible Causes of Urinary Urgency

What are some other reasons this might happen? Vaginal and bladder inflammation, diabetes, MS, a side effect of a new medication (such as a diuretic) and even winter. What you eat (fake sweetener, for example), drink (like seltzer) and hear (such as water dripping from a faucet) can play a part in how long you’ll feel comfortable holding your urine, so you may want to think about it like a detective when determining the cause.

When to Loop in Your Doctor

As there are so many reasons why this can happen—and because some are quite serious—it’s good to loop your doctor in. (Your doctor may be able to prescribe Botox too if overactive bladder is the cause. Botox, injected directly into your bladder’s detrusor muscle, can keep that muscle from spasming, so you don’t feel that sudden, panicked need to get to the bathroom. It’s not especially painful and FDA-approved, but it may need to be injected more than once, as it wears off in a few months.)

How Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Can Help

If it turns out not to be serious, and you can’t resolve it on your own, then it’s time to contact your local awesome pelvic floor PT! Urinary urgency is not something you have to put up with, regardless of what you’ve been told. I repeat, you do not have to live like this. You deserve better! It is something we know how to treat effectively with bladder training and kegels. Kegels can be hard to get the hang of, so ask your therapist to allow you to practice during a session. Bladder training is determining ahead of time when you will go to the bathroom. This is versus allowing your bladder to empty on its own, without your wish or permission. It is something that also requires patience, but can be so worth the effort.

Why This Matters

Getting urinary urgency under control can change your life! Imagine: no more avoiding long car rides. No more mapping out every bathroom in a mile radius. No more racing to your bathroom before you even say hi to your family. And no more being scared to laugh at a hysterical scene at the movies. I really appreciate Judy Gold for shining a light on urinary urgency with her trademark sense of humor. I hope that you, Judy (and Judy’s neighbor) get some relief soon because urinary urgency is, at the end of the day, no laughing matter.

Is It a UTI or Something Else?

UTI, Yeast Infection, Vulvodynia or PFD? The Guessing Game No One Wants to Play

Are you having pain down there? You might find yourself asking… is it a UTI or something else? Urinary tract infections, yeast infections, vulvodynia, and pelvic floor disorders are not only uncomfortable. They are also confusing, since symptoms can present similarly. The body can be a really good liar. Because of that, we have to be really smart when trying to understand it.

Understanding Common Infections: UTIs and Yeast Infections

Let’s start with everyone’s favorite: infections. UTIs are a fairly regular occurrence for women, but yes, men also get them. UTIs usually occur when bacteria enters the urethra. Yeast infections, true to their name, are usually caused by Candida albicans, a type of yeast.

Both UTIs and yeast infections can lead to pain when you urinate, also known as dysuria. Both can also cause discharge. That being said, yeast infection discharge can be “thick, white and clumpy,” according to OB/GYN Jill Purdie, M.D., quoted in Prevention. This type of discharge is not as likely with UTIs. With UTIs, discharge can also originate from the urethra when it is involved in the infection. With yeast infections, you commonly see vaginal discharge.

Key Clues That May Help You Tell the Difference

The presence or lack of itching or vaginal swelling can be a major clue. A lack of itching often points toward a UTI. The presence of itching or swelling more often suggests a yeast infection.

With a UTI, You may also have, in addition to painful urination with a UTI, fever and urinary urgency.

Putting on Your Detective Hat

When you start wondering which is which, it’s time to put on your detective hat. With UTIs, not drinking enough water and not urinating regularly can set you up for trouble. (six to eight glasses) of water matter more than you think.

So ask yourself: were you recently laser-focused on a Netflix show and forgot to drink water or get up to urinate . . . or both? If so, a UTI becomes more likely.

Yeast infections, on the other hand, sometimes happen after antibiotic use. Think back on your recent history. Another reason not to take antibiotics you don’t really need? Antibiotic resistance.

What to Do If You Suspect a UTI

If you suspect a UTI, a home test can be a helpful starting point, even though it isn’t perfect. From there, call your doctor to discuss next steps. They may order a urinalysis and a clean-catch urine sample.

What does that mean? According to Healthline, vaginal skin naturally has bacteria on it. You don’t want that bacteria to show up in the culture. If it does, it can taint the results and lead to inaccuracy.

When It’s Not an Infection: Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and Vulvodynia

Here comes the curveball, my friends. Pelvic floor dysfunction and vulvodynia can mimic UTIs and yeast infections.

With pelvic floor dysfunction, you can have frequent urination or back pain, similar to a UTI. You won’t have a fever, though. With vulvodynia, itching can absolutely be present.

Why Antibiotics Can Be Confusing

Here’s another layer of confusion. Antibiotics can sometimes make you feel better even if you don’t have a UTI. Yes, it’s true. I have seen people get some relief from antibiotics even when they don’t actually have a UTI at all.

This has been observed in people with CPPS, or chronic pelvic pain syndrome. In some cases, the relief may come from an undetected UTI. According to emedicine,  “Some patients with CPPS are maintained on long-term, low-dose regimens, such as one tablet of trimethoprim-sulfamethoxazole (Septra DS) daily. In some cases, patients experience symptomatic relief while on these regimens. Whether this is a reflection of the strong placebo effect associated with treatment of this condition or the result of suppression of an undetected pathogen is purely a matter of speculation. Studies suggest that, beyond the placebo effect, certain antibiotics may actually be providing an objective anti-inflammatory and/or analgesic benefit to these patients.”

If you don’t feel better after taking antibiotics for a UTI, that’s something to talk to your doctor about. The treatment may be ineffective at best. At worst, it can contribute to antibiotic resistance.

Trusting Your Body and Seeking the Right Care

Ultimately, you don’t want to spin your wheels longer than you have to. Doing so can leave you feeling worse than necessary. It can also allow something like a UTI to escalate.

Trying to figure out what’s going on can feel time-consuming and exhausting. Still, you don’t want to delay seeing a doctor for a UTI because you thought you could ease symptoms with yogurt. Knowing your body and communicating clearly can only help your provider at the end of the day.

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